Celebrated Valentine’s day with my friends Angelo, Janah and Jayson. Twas all nice. Wasn’t expecting to hang out a little longer but we did. 

The cool thing was that, I get to settle out whatever I have… 

Thing is, I had an epiphany about relationships. 

How awesome would it be to find someone whom you can have a harmonious relationship with. Blessed are the ones who have one, celebrating Valentine’s as a couple. 

If I am to pursue a girl, I’d make sure that I’m really really sure my whole life. And if so, believing that the girl is worth the wait then why not? My personality type does not fall in the needy for relationship, I want relationships to make sense and to be progressive and beneficial. Of course, I’m interested for the long term aspect.

If I am to have a girlfriend, I’d make sure I can marry that girl and love her with my all.

But if it happens to be that the girl and me have a mutual understanding (as they like to call it) then so be it; if the situation does not permit it so, then I’d be able to compensate for it by: WAITING.

Waiting, in my opinion, especially for that certain someone is where the courtship stage take place. It is when the two of you are in the same equal understanding, that both would be willing to lock themselves for each other only, that the girl nor the boy won’t entertain any other, but only for them two. I see courtship that way, because you’re dearly inlove with that person, but that will be tested by terms of waiting and getting to know the strengths and weaknesses of that person you love. To be able to tolerate and learn to love their ways that you’d be able to love them anyway.

If that would pull off, it would be all worth it I believe. Of course, eventually one will learn to open up more and to the point that they’d get the blessings of both parents and that would be such a wonderful feeling.